
Esther Bro
I have my neice & nephew with my husband & I due to CPS. They have been through very tramatic experiences: sexual, physical & emotional abuse. I have a baby monitor in one of the bedrooms so I can keep an ear out for things. My niece often struggles in her sleep; crying out "no, don't, please stop" & moaning. Last night her father (who is a good parent) slept over to spend time with the kids. I gave them my sons room; dad slept on the bed my niece and nephew made pillow beds on the floor, they watched a movie & had the door closed. I have the monitor in the next room. Throughout the night I heard muffled sounds, light talking & crying every now & then; but nothing I was worried about I just thought the monitor was picking up the sounds through the wall. But then I heard my nieces voice crying "no daddy please stop don't touch me please daddy no" I. Woke my husband & he went to check on them. I was still listening when he opened the door & everyone was asleep the only noise in the room was the music from the end of the moive. I was so scared I went downstairs to sleep; but before I did I thought maybe it was just the moive & I was just over reacting. So I turned the moive off & turned the monitor back on then asked my husband to let me know if he doesn't hear it anymore. While downstairs maybe after 20 minutes I heard LOUD moaning & screaming, it was the girls voice but it was not her, she was sound asleep. My husband turned the monitor off & we went to sleep. Both of us were terrified & confused. What was that? Why was it her voice? Has anyone ever heard about this happening? And what should I do?
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Monitors can pick up noise from other similar frequency monitors in the neighborhood, once when my daughter was up with a virus my neighbors picked it up on their monitor and thought it was their granddaughter who was spending the night-and they are 3 houses down. They made several trips to her room before they found it was a different baby.
OTOH, my 4 year old will on rare occassions cry ( we all sleep in rooms next to each other and don;t need monitors past the tiny baby phase) at night but be fast asleep. I don't know if its some form of night terror or what, but we usually lay down with him for a while until he seems better. I'd be deeply concerned given the background and let a child who has been abused have her own space, put dad on the couch, at the least.
edit: honestly assuming this is real, I'd not let dad over unsupervised and notify CPS about the development
Monitors can pick up noise from other similar frequency monitors in the neighborhood, once when my daughter was up with a virus my neighbors picked it up on their monitor and thought it was their granddaughter who was spending the night-and they are 3 houses down. They made several trips to her room before they found it was a different baby.
OTOH, my 4 year old will on rare occassions cry ( we all sleep in rooms next to each other and don;t need monitors past the tiny baby phase) at night but be fast asleep. I don't know if its some form of night terror or what, but we usually lay down with him for a while until he seems better. I'd be deeply concerned given the background and let a child who has been abused have her own space, put dad on the couch, at the least.
edit: honestly assuming this is real, I'd not let dad over unsupervised and notify CPS about the development
Do you ever hear other people talking on the baby monitor ?

Sherry
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Oh my gosh - yes!
There have been many times where I heard my neighbors cordless phone conversations or when my monitor picked up a neighbors baby monitor so I heard just everyday family conversations in their household.
It made me VERY aware of what I was saying in MY house whenever MY baby monitor was on! Who knows what people have heard from MY house!!
Oh my gosh - yes!
There have been many times where I heard my neighbors cordless phone conversations or when my monitor picked up a neighbors baby monitor so I heard just everyday family conversations in their household.
It made me VERY aware of what I was saying in MY house whenever MY baby monitor was on! Who knows what people have heard from MY house!!
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